11 GUIDELINES OF A NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE MAN

1:/ Don’t act in a way that is contrary to your own rules of behaviour to impress a girl, no matter how hot. It’s counterproductive.


2:/ You get out what you put in. If you come from a position of respect and love for women

you will do well and have a smoother ride.


If you come from a place of authenticity and honesty, you will attract women who want the same.


If you come from a position of misogyny / lack of trust and just look to empty your spunk into a willing receptacle…You will get contempt and no love in return.


3:/ No one “deserves” beautiful women any more than you do.


No one is above you.

No one is below you.

Status, money, power mean nothing to many women. See rule (2)


If you make it your life’s mission to raise yourself to your highest level (including your looks, physique, fitness) and judge yourself by your own standards, you will begin to feel worthy and deserving of these women yourself.


Then they will come to you.


4:/ Men lead, women follow.


They feel safe and secure around a confident guy, comfortable in his own skin who leads.

They want you to step up and lead the way:


In the approach

In the seduction

In the relationship


5:/ Authenticity in and of itself has value.


Try to be childlike in your connection with your emotions and act according to how you feel

on a moment by moment basis within your rigid standards and boundaries:


The further you move away from this, the less effective you are.


6:/ Make it your mission to improve. Ruthlessly chase down insecurities, neediness, jealousy, weakness.


7:/ Persist. Don’t give in too easily. Women have any number of reasons why they reject /

say no – right throughout the seduction process.


It’s your job as a man to find out when they mean it (they often don’t!) . More experience will hone these skills.


(Sometimes “no” is very very clear indeed – Don’t be a rapist!)


8:/ You don’t need perfection in your approach. Do not judge yourself too harshly.


You can be nervous

Go red

Knees knocking


Breathe deeply, get control, and persist.


What you are experiencing is REAL. See (v). Women do not expect perfection / overly smooth approaches.


You can still take a girl to bed with any or all of the symptoms above. I have done so numerous times (I suffered from anxiety for many years)


9:/ Emotion, not logic


Never try to logically persuade a woman that she should be with you / have sex with you / do anything with you. Instead, change her emotional state and make her feel it.


10:/ Have other passions. Have a mission.


My mission was self improvement. It was unsupportable to me that I could walk

through the world and not feel proud, confident, strong.


It involved:


Challenging myself and growing (in career, uncomfortable experiences, going for hotter and hotter women)

Travelling. (This gives you perspective. You also get to see how easy it can be to meet women in other countries)

Confronting my demons

Seeking out excellence in my peer group

Reading quality material

Standing up to others

Finding out what makes ME tick. What do I stand for?


Now my mission is to grow this business.


Find yours!


11:/Love beauty. If she makes your heart flutter, let it inspire you.


Fall in love with her beauty.


BUT at the back of your mind, know that she is not your all